How to deal with divorce mentally
Divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences to navigate emotionally and mentally. Here are some tips to help
In the realm of relationships, the foundation is built on love, trust, and support. When these essential elements are lacking, a relationship can turn toxic. The term ‘toxic relationships’ is gaining prominence in discussions about interpersonal dynamics. But what truly defines a toxic relationship, and when does the toxicity begin?
A toxic relationship is characterised by a dearth of support, understanding, and acknowledgment. Instead of feeling loved, you may experience misunderstanding and non-appreciation. Reciprocity in love and efforts for the relationship becomes a distant concept.
Toxicity may manifest in the early stages of a relationship. The key is to notice signs and not ignore them. Were there red flags that you chose to overlook? Or were self-doubt and a low sense of self keeping you from acknowledging warning signals?
Those seeking genuine connection make efforts to create a loving environment. In contrast, individuals aiming for control exhibit specific gestures. These may include avoiding calls, making you feel wrong for expressing feelings, and defending their behaviour while blaming your reactions.
Red flags in a toxic relationship may include demeaning behaviour, lack of effort to be with you, constant criticism, insistence on agreement, and creating discomfort in various aspects of your life. Prioritising their needs while dismissing yours becomes a recurring pattern.
To navigate toxic relationships, self-awareness is crucial. Recognise if you tend to be a people-pleaser, always striving to meet others’ expectations at the expense of your well-being.
Assess whether anxiety arises when someone is upset with you, leading you to accept fault even when it may not be justified. Acknowledge the patterns of self-correction to avoid displeasure.
Question the belief that harmony in a relationship rest solely on your shoulders. A healthy relationship involves shared responsibilities and efforts from both parties.
Reflect on whether, even in the face of abuse, you find yourself consistently correcting your behaviour. This may indicate a need for self-empowerment and boundary-setting.
Trust your intuition. If it signals discomfort or unease, don’t dismiss it. Your instincts are valuable guides in navigating relationships.
Before embarking on a new relationship or managing a toxic one, prioritise self-healing. Acknowledge the patterns, understand your needs, and foster a healthy relationship with yourself.
Navigating toxic relationships requires self-awareness, the ability to recognise red flags, and a commitment to healing. Before venturing into new connections or addressing toxicity in existing relationships, invest time in understanding and healing yourself.
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